Right Ear Otitis - Conflict: Desire to Hear Something Specific

 

Written in 2015: New German Medicine case confirmed in our family: strong pain in the right ear of a small child (2 years 2 months): yesterday morning around 5 o'clock the little one kept rolling on the pillow and could not find his place on the right side at all. After about 5 minutes, he woke up and started screaming "ear ache, my ear aches!". He wouldn't let us touch his ear or that area of his head. I tried to nurse him, but he could only sit on his left side on my hand. Until 9 o'clock he struggled continuously trying to sleep, he would fall asleep for a few minutes, but as soon as he moved his head to the right he would wake up screaming in pain again. At 1 o'clock he was absolutely fine. How we treated the problem:

1. we completely ignored a message sent by my panicked husband with an article found on the internet telling about otitis, high fever, unbearable pain, medication, complications leading to pus in the eardrum, perforation of the eardrum, deafness...SCARY!

2. I knew that pain in the left ear occurs when you have suffered a shock from something you heard and it upset you and in the right when you want to hear something and don't hear it. I.e. a child who wants something very much and waits to be told by his parents that this wish will be fulfilled. Here an article about left ear otitis, they are totally different conflicts.

3. I sat and tried to think what we had done the previous days and what could have influenced the little one so much that he was upset that he didn't hear something...the day before we had taken a tram ride and on the way home we passed a playground. I had 2 ideas: 1. when we got off the tram he was sad because he still wanted to go on the tram, he loves the tram; 2. when we passed the playground he wanted to go on the slide, but I didn't let him because it wasn't for small children - the stairs of the slide were like a climbing platform for older children, they weren't normal stairs and the slide was too steep. So I started to tell him until I was sure he understood: 1. that we care about him, that we love him, that we want him to be well, 2. that we'll go on the tram as many times as he wants, that we'll push the button again to open the door etc. etc, etc, 3. that we'll go on the slide again in our block park where he likes it, to see the green monkey at the top, to go on the spiral slide etc. etc. etc.

4. About 15 minutes after I kept telling him this while I was nursing him, he fell asleep and slept without interruption for an hour and a half. Before he could only sleep for 5 minutes max. As soon as he put his head on the right side he would wake up crying. Now he slept even on his right side. He woke up much better and told me his ear didn't hurt anymore. He even let me look at it and put my hand on it. He stayed awake for about 2 more hours then slept another 4!!! he only woke up to eat for 5 minutes and went back to sleep. Slept well last night, hasn't complained about his ear since. All good.

5. What else I learned during the process:

- Good homeopathic solutions in this situation to further alleviate the pain caused by otitis are frankincense smoke or homeopathic remedy of Indian Frankincense CH7 and for otitis proper Ferrum phosphoricum CH7 or Pulsatilla CH9. It was no longer necessary to resort to them;

- Fever is not related to otitis; earache is not necessarily accompanied by fever; our son had no fever;

- Pain in otitis does not occur in the healing phase but in the active conflict phase when the tissue is growing, so the mother must act fast when the child complains about the ear;

- When the conflict has resolved the growth of cells in the ear is "dissolved" and ear discharge occurs. The discharge is not obligatory - if the conflict was short-lived, the cells are resorbed and nothing more is noticed. In our case, the conflict lasted a few hours and ended well.

Good health to all and thank you, Dr. Hamer!

Geo

Dry Skin on Baby's Head - Unwanted Touch Conflict

 

 

Written in 2014: The peels on the baby and toddler's scalp - seborrheic dermatitis I think it's called - our baby made those yellowish and thick like scales patches of dry skin, at first a few months after birth and then periodically - I cleaned them with olive oil and a comb because that's all I knew at the time and that's what my family doctor and friends with older children advised me. However, they reappeared and for the baby the cleaning was unpleasant because they had to be soaked with oil to make them moist, the baby had to be chased around the house to scratch the scalp with the comb and then washed to remove the oil. Horror. Not to mention he hated washing his head and hair. Nobody knew the cause but only the temporary solution.

In addition, they were not localized on the whole head but on the crest and right temple. None on the other sides of the head.

Then I came across New German Medicine and it explained what was going on with the baby.

Specifically: at birth (caesarean section), the baby was taken by the head by the doctor, then separated from me for hours. The unwanted touch on his head caused him to "build" a protective barrier. As long as he didn't get over the trauma, those yellowish peels kept appearing no matter how well we cleaned them.

I then read about talks with the child's soul during sleep, talks where you explain why you acted in a certain way, why what happened had happened, where were you wrong as a parent, and so on. Discussions as between adults, clear, simple, serious. Asking for forgiveness where necessary.

I tried sleep talking myself about 3 months ago with the baby. I told him about the day he was born, what it was like, why we made the choices we did, how we felt as parents, how much we cared about him and how much we waited and enjoyed him. The result - 2 months ago those peels that we never removed at all, although they are a bit unsightly, started to dry up and fall off by themselves - big chunks, bigger than dandruff, even 2-3 millimeters. In 2 months, about half of them have fallen off. Otherwise I don't do anything to them, I just wash his head normally. Voila! The baby starts to get over the conflict and things slowly get better.

Thank you, Dr. Hamer!

Cystitis / Urinary Tract Infection - Territory Marking Conflict

 

Written in 2016: two days ago I had an evening contradictory discussion with my husband about parenting - how permissive we should be, how indifferent, how much we should or shouldn't "mind the kid", etc. - the point is that I felt attacked for my point of view, my decisions about how I approach parenting were ignored or highly disputed, given that I spend much more time with the child at home. The discussion started around 7pm, resumed at 8pm and calmly cleared up. We cleared up all the issues, prejudices and the wrong way my husband was looking at things as far as I was concerned - wrong conclusions drawn because of the limited time he had spent at home lately. Finally things were cleared up.

The next day, about 10-12 hours after the discussion, I woke up with symptoms of urinary infection/cystitis (I don't know which one because I didn't take the time to find out). Namely: burning sensation when urinating, desire to urinate often, cold like the beginning of chills. All too familiar symptoms from my student days when my territory was "violated" by my parents and decisions ignored and when I suffered for 2 years, month after month from this problem. Until finding out about New German Medicine I took antibiotics monthly for 2 years, then Biseptol, then Urinal, then cranberry tincture which I carried around in my bag every day because I didn't know when I would need it again - I didn't know then what to do. A simple serious and firm discussion with my parents would have helped me...if I knew...

How to explain the situation? In the wild animals often urinate when marking their territory - I felt someone had entered my "territory" and I had to "mark" it. That's why I felt the need to urinate so often.

What did I do? I calmly drank a cup of water and thought about what recent conflict might have triggered my symptoms. Apart from the discussion with my husband, which initially bothered me a lot, I had no other explanation. As soon as I became aware of the problem, all symptoms disappeared immediately. The whole thing lasted a maximum of 30 minutes.  Good day to all of you, and stay healthy!"

Thank you, Dr. Hamer!

Dizziness - Falling Conflict - Real or Imaginary

I was about 16-17 years old, my brother 8 years younger, we were both in the countryside, on holiday, at our parents' house, alone - our parents only came on weekends because they were working, we were supervised by the grandparents who lived next door. One morning I couldn't get out of bed - I was dizzy, I saw black all around and I fell back down. I stayed like that for about an hour under the terrified eyes of my brother who didn't understand what was wrong with me. I could talk, but I couldn't get out of bed. I was trying to encourage him. At one point I managed to eat a piece of bread, black, I still remember, that he brought me. By evening I managed to have another cup of tea and that was it. I've had episodes like this before, but never this bad. The dizziness was there for about 60-90 minutes, maybe more until I managed to get out of bed.

I always explained these episodes on calcium deficiency - that's all I knew then and that's what my mother told me.

The real explanation - a few days previously I had done some "acrobatics" on roller skates in the yard, fell, sprained my hand and the fall itself caused the dizziness. The dizziness lessened in intensity and went away on its own when I got over the falling episode. The dizziness occurs with fear of falling - real (in this case) or imagined (fear of failing an exam for example) in the healing phase.

Thank you, Dr Hamer!

Left Ear Otitis - Conflict Unwanted Noises

Symptoms: pain, itching, brown discharge in our dog's left ear. He scratched in his ear with his claws until he bled. Happening around October-November 2014. That's how we got in touch with New German Medicine (NMG).

After a round of antibiotics and drops, after an anesthesia following which he was cleaned in the ear, I decided to look for other natural solutions for dog otitis. It had been bothering him for almost 2 months already. The drops were an ordeal because he had to be chased around the house and held by force.

That's how I found out about Dr. Hamer and the NMG.

Specifically: conflict: otitis in the left ear occurs when we are very disturbed by a sound, noise, someone's criticism, someone's words, anything that falls into the category of auditory stimulus.

The pain occurs in the active phase of the conflict when a cellular growth occurs in the ear.

In the healing phase - the cell growth is dissolved by bacteria and brown discharge occurs.

Why did the dog suffer from otitis in the left ear? Because until September 2013 the whole house was his and peace and quiet reigned in it. From September 2013 our son came and the house was filled with noise, chaos, and ...did I mention noise? :)  the dog endured as much as he could until his ear "rebelled".

What did we actually do to him? Nothing - I just gave him extra attention, patted his ailing ear and it went away. It came back the next year (probably the period of the year was the trigger) and the same thing passed without absolutely no medication.  Then gone for good.

Thank you, Dr. Hamer!