A Christmas full of conflicts in 2022: left tonsil pain, dry cough, stopped digestion, broken stomach, bitter taste

 

Yeah...that's how I feel, like this cat in the picture :). I'll start by mentioning that I'm aware that I'm the one who creates the reality I live in, that I'm responsible for what happened to me, but I still don't know how to heal my childhood traumas, traumas that are still very much alive 35 years later. I'm working on them, but until I manage to heal them, I'll tell you about this year's Christmas, what "joys" it brought me and give you explanations for each "joy" so that you don't panic if you also face them.

Let's start: around 2003, that is, many years ago, my mother, forced by the fact that she lost her job, accepted the position of maternal assistant for a disabled and mentally retarded little girl, the "little girl" who is now 23 years old. My mother retired about 5 years ago, but they decided, mostly under pressure from my father, to keep the contract until this person finishes high school (she attended a kind of vocational high school where people with disabilities are also accepted). So far, everything is fine... except that my mother is exhausted and needs a break and my father is the one who is putting pressure on me to keep the contract because he needs money... for his needs, which are not for the family.

This situation, combined with the fact that we have a large household, with animals that don't really allow us to travel, has led us to the situation where I see my mother only 2 times a year and then only for 2-3 days, each time tired, mentally exhausted because physically taking care of such a person is not easy, I won't go into detail. In addition, this person is a very difficult one, my mother has a hard time dealing with her, she doesn't listen to her, if she goes out with her somewhere, she hits people on the street, screams, she doesn't want to come home except when she wants, on the road she wants... well, a difficult situation. I wish my parents would spend more time with us, especially with their grandson because I'm effectively counting the days they've spent with him in the 9 years he's been around.

My father is a difficult man, he gets angry easily, loses a lot of money on his vices, has a lot of frustrations, reacts violently, doesn't know how to behave like a grandfather, doesn't know how to tell stories or play. Among the few relationships he had with his nephew, he accused him of intentionally throwing a slipper at his head, given that the child, at 6 years old at the time, was playing with puppies, throwing slippers and the father happened to be around. The father has major communication problems, very low emotional intelligence, sometimes lies and blames others and behaves like a kindergarten child. I think you have made up your mind and I won't insist anymore...

On December 21st, when all my conflicts started, I received a phone call. The screen said "mom", but it was dad who greeted me and didn't say anything. I thought something had happened to him, that something had happened, I didn't know why he wasn't talking. He told me that everything was OK, he was just sitting by the phone and waiting to pretend to be Santa Claus!! I thought I hadn't heard correctly...he told me that he had to speak loudly and loudly as if Santa Claus were coming and in the meantime mom had to quickly go put presents under the tree for "their daughter" who was only 23 years old. I was left "mute", remember the expression because because of this I have been coughing continuously for 7 days. We said goodbye and hung up without being able to believe what I was hearing. My eyes went black and I felt my stomach ache from nerves.

A few minutes later, my mother called me and explained that they had called me by mistake while they were doing a Santa Claus skit. I couldn't find the words to express my anger. They don't have money for gifts for their grandson (except for what my mother puts aside without my father knowing, otherwise he takes it and spends it too), they have a hard time managing money even though they have 3 very good sources of income that would allow them to live very well (also because of his absurd expenses and the debts he is struggling with), they don't have time to tell their grandson stories, they don't have time to come visit us, but for a 23-year-old stranger they have money for gifts and time to do embarrassing Santa Claus skits. My mother told me that she was in the middle and was too exhausted to explain. The girl they are raising is very difficult and is capable of blowing her mother's brains out for days on end if all her whims are not met.

Since the evening of December 21st, a long series of conflicts began for me and I will explain them to you one by one:

- left tonsil pain - I could hardly swallow anything - only the left. The explanation: "I have something/a piece of food stuck in my throat and I can't swallow". It refers to both real situations, but also imaginary ones, as was the case with me. I simply couldn't swallow the situation. On the right is another conflict - "I want to get a bite (real or imaginary) and I don't get it. The pain occurs because the tonsils are getting bigger. The longer the conflict lasts, the more the tonsils grow and the more it hurts. When the conflict is over, the extra tissue that has grown falls apart. Pus may appear if the conflict has been going on for a long time. Antibiotics only stop the healing process, a process that is resumed when the body has eliminated them. So... when the pain appears, urgently resolve the conflict.

- dry cough that has been going on for 7 days and 6 nights and has not gone away yet. Dry cough has 3 possible causes: 1. strong fright that affects the larynx (this is not my case here), 2. conflict of loss of territory (this is not the case) that is felt in the lungs because it affects the bronchi and 3. conflict of very strong unpleasant surprise, "I was left speechless" that affects all the larynx - obviously my case; the situation surprised me very, very unpleasantly, I got extremely angry. I have written about dry cough here, here, and here before, but with other causes. The cough is the healing phase, the sensitivity of the throat being given by the tissue that is balancing.

- digestion stopped for about 3 days - I ate with difficulty because I wasn't really hungry, everything I ate felt like it was falling into my stomach like a boulder, I felt a lot of air coming back up my throat, I ate some marinated fish one morning and by evening I still had it in my stomach, I could taste marinated fish in my throat; the digestive system from the mouth to the intestines is affected by anger conflicts. The strange thing is that on day 4 I felt the need to eat boiled egg yolks, without the white. I felt like I was doing well, probably the body was asking for protein to recover and I ate 4-5 at a time.

- broken tooth - on the right side, the partner's side (by partner this time I mean my father), I being right-handed I have a pretty hard perforated tooth from which a piece broke off from the anger conflict. Teeth are affected when we want to bite someone, in his case I wanted to grind them into the masses of nerves. A corner of my mouth broke so badly that I could feel it cutting my tongue when I swallowed. At 3 in the morning I would file my mouth with a small manual file because I couldn't sleep - I could feel it scratching my tongue when I was lying down;

- bitter taste in my mouth after 3 days when I felt digestion starting again and I started to feel hungry - bile is affected by conflicts of anger and indignation. Do I need to explain any further? My bile had finally recovered from the conflict.

- some snot - sniffing conflict, I sniffed the situation to better understand what was happening. I wrote about the appearance of snot here  and here - there is no point in going into detail again.

After a week I still have a dry cough, quite annoying and some snot. To give you an idea of ​​how "mute" I am left by the situation. I am sad, disappointed, my anger and indignation have passed. At Christmas I refused to call home to wish anything, I didn't feel up to it.

What do I do now... I'm waiting for everything to pass and I started making affirmations to give a positive note to the situation - "I am grateful that I have good parents who love me, appreciate me and have time for me" - The Universe will hear me and will give me the things I am grateful for... I am still sad, but I feel a little better after this affirmation.

Good health to everyone and thank you for reading such a long post!

Geo

Dizziness, nausea, stomach ache in child

 

This morning the child told me that he felt a little sick. He went outside to pee and when he came back he told me that he was dizzy, that he thought he was going to one side, that he was a little nauseous and as a bonus he also had a stomach ache. I cured him...that is, he cured himself in about 15 minutes...let me tell you how:

Last night I had a little "match" with him. I asked him to move his laptop to his bed so that I could lie down on our bed. He moved, but he couldn't help but grimace and make up stories. He had the charger closer to the outlet and he didn't feel like it. As tired as I was, I got a stain on it and we got angry. He ran outside when he saw me angry, he doesn't see me very often because I manage to hold back, but yesterday he managed to get me out of the watermelons after I had been in the cold all day and his 11 cats also made my hair "curly". I just wanted to rest. I got out of the watermelons, chased him around the yard, yelled at him and he got scared because he doesn't usually see me like this. I didn't hit him but he was afraid I was hitting him. He wanted to climb a plank thinking he was getting away from me and fell off it, about a meter away. After running around the yard we made up, everything was OK. Overnight, however, his body worked and in the morning he was already in the healing phase after all the conflicts last night.

Dizziness - I'm afraid of falling - I've written about it here and here. This applies to both real falls (either you are afraid of falling yourself because you have fallen before or not, or you are afraid of someone you love falling - e.g. a mother who is afraid of her child who is just learning to walk or who is climbing a tree falling) and imaginary falls (for example, during an exam, the husband had dizziness a few years ago when he was studying for a test and was afraid of falling and making a fool of himself at work). The child was afraid of the board he climbed on and hence the dizziness.

Nausea - toxic ingestion conflict - I swallowed something that did not go well with me and my body is trying to expel it - either the food itself or a situation that bothered me. The child had a hard time with the situation last night when he was scolded. It can also be accompanied by diarrhea when the body expels what is toxic to it as quickly as it can, by all means. In our case it was just nausea.

Stomach ache - anger conflict. There is no need to explain where the child's anger comes from. The remedy that calms him down most often is Chamomilla, he is a character who gets angry easily and negatively charges those around him with his annoying way of behaving, he always blames others, always yells, he is always agitated and aggressive. We have to deal with these too, but another time...

What I did in this situation - I explained the situation in detail - I explained everything I wrote above to him; I asked him if he could eat something because he was lying in bed and feeling weak. He said no. He drank water. The water triggered his vomiting, he vomited, his stomach cleared. After vomiting he was able to eat three slices of bread with cream cheese and half a cup of tea with mint and sage (these are the herbs he requested). After eating he had absolutely nothing, absolutely none of the symptoms. Now he is good to go to the laptop.

Good health to everyone and thank you Dr. Hamer!

Geo

Child's tooth abscess

 

About a month ago, I haven't had time to write in a while, my child comes to me worried about a pain in his gums. I look to see what he has and my legs go numb at first. The abscess on his right cheek is huge, a swelling the size of a sea cucumber with two white dots that seemed to be oozing pus. He told me that it hurts moderately, bearably.

What do you say to the doctor in such cases? Aaaaaaaaa! Panic! Infection! Antibiotics! Don't let the infection spread! Pus! Is that right?

What did we do?

I told the child to try to brush his teeth several times if he could, in the idea of ​​getting the pus out of his gums faster. I also explained what he has so that he understands that there is nothing to be afraid of. I didn't urge him to look in the mirror so he wouldn't be scared.

So? What's the matter? A conflict of dirt and that's it.

Do you know how pimples appear on your face? Do you panic when you have such a pimple? Infection? Antibiotics? Of course not, you'll laugh. The same process is in the case of an abscess. The gum is part of the same category of tissues as the skin, only it's in the mouth. When you put your dirty hand on the skin, the body feels the dirt and a pimple appears to keep it at bay. The child had a bigger "pimple" at the table.

How did it happen? He remembered it himself. About 2 days ago he kept putting his hand in his mouth to feel a tooth next to it that was wobbling and getting ready to fall out. He also touched the gum next to the molar with the abscess. The dirty hand, from outside, from cats, from the grass, various things that a child puts his hand on in the country. The gum perceived the dirt on the finger that was touched with and reacted by swelling to keep it at bay.

The pus spots were already in the area where the gum was already releasing pus. After explaining to the child what he had, I reminded him for I don't know how many times not to put his dirty hands in his mouth and I asked him to brush his teeth as much as he could in the area with the abscess at least 2 times a day. In two days he had nothing left. I didn't treat him with anything at all. I just talked to him and recommended that he keep his hands and mouth clean.

Good health to everyone and thank you Dr. Hamer!

Geo

Inflammation of the right eye in a kitten

 

In June, one of our cats gave birth to four kittens. I saw her hiding behind some bags and, being curious, I went after her to look. She meowed at me, upset that I was leaving, disturbed by my presence. I respected her wish and did not disturb her anymore, I just went to check if she was okay an hour later. My presence caused problems with the little eyes of three of the kittens. When they grew up, about 2 weeks later, and it was time for their eyes to open, all but one, I think the smallest, had their right eye closed with bad secretions. The big kitten even developed an edema (a swelling filled with water) that was half the size of its head.

Their eyes opened with difficulty, I mean the right one in all three kittens, and only a month after birth did they have normal eyes. The big kitten's edema also disappeared a few days later. The poor thing looks quite strange with half of her head swollen. It was obvious that it was from the eyes.

I have written about eye discharge here before.

And now let me explain the situation to you - the cat suffered a visual separation conflict - that is, she wanted not to see me, not to be disturbed by me anymore. The eyes close when you don't want to see. The same goes for swelling around the eyes. An article on this topic here. The conflict was taken over from the mother by three of the four kittens whose eyes opened much later than normal. The eldest kitten even developed edema, that is, a swelling filled with fluid in the eye, a sign that he took over the mother's strongest conflict. The role of the edema is to protect the affected organ during the healing process and it will gradually be eliminated. It was removed in about 3-4 days, the head shape returned to normal and the eye opened 2 weeks later.

All the kittens recovered and developed normally. We did nothing to them. Their mother cleaned them, then they learned to clean themselves. We only cleaned them once with some moistened cotton balls, but the eyes immediately closed back up and we decided to leave them alone.

Thank you, Dr. Hamer and good luck to everyone!

Geo

Dry left eye - feeling tired and dry - conflict "I didn't like what I saw"

 

The other day I was talking to my mother on the phone. After the conversation I noticed that my left eye felt very dry and tired. Just out of the blue and only my left one. Without having been on the computer or not having slept overnight.

I wonder why? I replay the entire conversation with my mother in my mind, I don't find anything strange. I sit for a few minutes and think - dry eye - surely something I saw and didn't like. I put a napkin moistened with water over my eye and it felt better. However, as soon as I took the napkin off, the dryness and feeling of fatigue returned. I wonder why? I went to bed like that and in the morning my eye was still tired and dry. Only the left one. And I slept well.

The next morning I look for the German medical book and read what I had already guessed - the conflict for dry eyes is "I don't like what I see/have seen". I wonder what I saw? Intuitively, my mind went to one of our cats. And I remembered what I saw and didn't like. The cat had been peeing for about a week. She wanted to pee in the house behind the couch, but I didn't agree to that and I let her out on the porch. I simply want my own clean place where I won't be invaded by others, and animals can sometimes be very insistent and tiring. I want to be able to sit on my bed without the cat climbing on me or having to pick up hair from the couches every day. The cat is allowed in the house occasionally, but her place is outside, especially since it's summer and hot.

I didn't let her pee in the house and she peeed outside on the porch in a more sheltered place. On the day of the conversation with my mother, she had come into the house through the window and I kept seeing her sniffing near the couch. Hm...then, while I was talking to my mother, I heard the kittens meowing loudly and the cat outside bringing one of her kittens to the door to bring it into the house. I didn't like the idea at all, I looked at her through the peephole ...with my LEFT eye..., I opened the door, took them both and took them back to the box on the porch from where she hasn't tried to move the kittens since.

Half an hour after I realized what I saw and didn't like, my eye didn't bother me anymore except very slightly, after about an hour it was like new. Awareness often resolves conflicts, especially when they are "fresh".

Good health to everyone!

Geo

Snot, productive cough, right tonsil pain...and the messy tooth that caused it all

 

A few days ago, my child suddenly showed me that his snot was flowing and it was bothering him to breathe. I explained that it was the healing phase of a sniffing conflict and we both started thinking about when he "sniffed" some danger or when he was in some state of stress.

First, we explained the conflict - in nature, animals sniff a new territory to see if it was free of dangers. And people do the same, especially children because for them everything is new, even if they do it unconsciously. The nasal mucosa is enriched with new cells to make the sniffing process more efficient, the number of receptors, so there is a cellular growth. When the conflict is over, that is, we have clarified the status of the environment we are in, we no longer sniff and the cells in the nose are automatically eliminated by the body, resulting in snot. The longer the process was, the more snot there will be. If we take a child to a crowded mall, he will sniff for a few hours. If we take a baby on vacation for a few days, he will sniff for at least 1-2 days until he gets used to the new environment. In the second situation, he will have more snot at the end of the conflict, meaning he will "have a cold" as mothers say. In reality, the cold/cold has nothing to do with the real situation.

If the snot is not eliminated in time and the child cannot breathe, the additional suffocation conflict appears (yes, other than the initial sniffing conflict) and then the productive cough. You will find more articles about coughing for additional clarification on this blog.

Let's get back to... snot. The child had been in the city with his father a few days ago. That must be it, I think. For a child raised in the country in a perfectly quiet environment, the city is a chaotic and somewhat stressful environment. Nooo, I wasn't stressed in the city, he tells me. So? What stressed you out? What danger did you smell? What stressful situation got you into? He has no idea until the evening when we go to bed and we all struggle to sleep all night. The child couldn't breathe, he woke up non-stop, we were tired and looking for conflict.

The next day... no surprise, a productive cough appears. Slightly weaker at first. And around lunchtime, the child tells me that his throat hurts too. Where, what, how... I start... he points under my chin on the right side. Aha... on the right, then. What have you wanted lately and didn't get? And I'm going to explain it to him. Tonsil pain refers to real or imaginary bites - on the left, something you received and didn't like, and on the right, something you want but didn't get. For example. bad news on the left or a food you are forced to eat and on the right a birthday present that does not come when and how you want or a specific food you dream of.

Explaining to the child and giving him examples, I see how he keeps moving a front tooth and how he tells me that he wants it to fall out because he is fed up with it. He can't eat well, it hurts if he bites something with it, it bothers him, it keeps moving around, but it doesn't fall out again... and he doesn't want to pull it out like his father had advised him not to bleed too much. Bingo! We both clarify...

How long have you been waiting for this tooth to fall out? It has been moving for about 2 weeks, he says, and for a few days it has been getting more and more annoying. And does it stress you out? Yes, I don't want it to fall out and eat it. It stresses me out at every meal. Ah! Look at the sniffling. And you really want it to fall out, right? YEAH! Aha, look at the right tonsil.

After about 3 days the snot went away, after another 2 the cough and tonsils. The tooth fell out after another 3. So simple awareness solved all the conflicts! I hope you have clarified how things are connected. What would I do if I didn't know German medicine? Probably cough syrup, something to unclog the nose, some excruciating pump, maybe an antibiotic for the tonsils. I didn't take anything at all, I just talked to the child and explained what he had.

Good health, everyone!

Geo

"Cold" With a Single Symptom - Young Child

According to the New German Medicine, different conflicts affect different tissues. Generally, when we talk about a "cold", we associate symptoms such as cough, snot, fever, all generated by cold, "draft", viruses or other dangerous creatures. Totally wrong! Different conflicts affect different tissues!

When children have snot, it is a conflict. When a cough also appears, we are talking about completely different tissues and completely different conflicts. It is the same with fever. When otitis appears, it is neither snot nor a cold, but something completely different... look for my articles about otitis. The left ear is affected by a different conflict than the right one.

I will now tell you about an episode of a "cold" during which we were faced with snot and that was it. And this is because we were careful not to generate other conflicts. We got rid of the cough because we knew how to avoid it. Here we go...

When the little one was one year and 3 months old, for Christmas we thought about visiting relatives. A pretty big mistake at this age when a child needs as much monotony in his environment as possible. We started from Iasi, we drove for 2 hours, stopped at my grandparents' in Bacau, stayed one night, then went to a cousin's who has 2 children a little older than ours, so they could play, we thought, we stayed there for a few hours then we set off for Slanic Moldova where we planned to stay about 3 nights. A long road, full of new things for the child.

I'll remind you what sniffing conflict means - in the wild, animals sniff any new thing or environment to make sure it's safe. To optimize sniffing and gathering "olfactory information" the nasal mucosa thickens. When the animal has made sure that everything is in order, the extra cells are eliminated - these form mucus, the dreaded mucus full of viruses, bacteria and microbes :). People, what a surprise!, do the same, only unconsciously and small children even more so. If we are rational, this does not mean that our biological processes are completely different from those of other living beings. The longer the sniffing lasts, the more mucus there will be.

Our child kept sniffing continuously for about 3 days. It was only when we arrived in Slanic Moldova, on the second day of our stay there, that the "cold" started. The mucus was flowing like rivers, a stuffy nose and that was it. He had no fever, no cough, nothing else. The general condition was good - he was eating, he was cheerful, but his nose was the center of attention. We focused on always keeping him clean. He didn't know how to blow his nose, we cleaned it with tissues, chopsticks, and a pump, although sometimes it was clear that he didn't like it, including at night. Fortunately, the poor thing endured it.

If we hadn't cleaned his nose, he would have immediately started coughing - a stuffy cough. Why? A stuffy cough is the result of a suffocation conflict, most often caused by the impossibility of breathing due to snot. That's why I got rid of it. The snot lasted for about 2 more days while I was there, plus about 2 more at home, and that was all the "cold" was about.

I recall the conflicts usually associated with the classic symptoms of a "cold" - read more details here.

Fever - "I want to get out of this situation, out of here"

Dry cough - fright or conflict of concern for the territory, the affected tissues are different.

Otitis - left ear (what I hear/heard bothers me), right ear (I want to hear something specific and I can't hear it). The pain occurs in the active conflict phase, unlike the others where the disease occurs when the conflict has been resolved. The antibiotic interrupts the process, causing the body to focus on eliminating the chemicals. That's why the symptoms pass. Because the conflict has not been resolved, the symptoms will return with even greater force after the chemicals have been eliminated. That's why some children get otitis after otitis. Because the symptoms have been "treated", not the cause. As soon as the pain appears, the cause must be established - that is, discussed with the child or if he is small (as was my case in the article about otitis in the right ear) the mother or those who stayed with him must think very seriously about what happened to him in the last hours or days. The conflict resolved immediately leaves no traces. Conflicts "treated" with chemicals where the disease returns again and again can lead to serious consequences including deafness or perforation of the eardrum which is necessary to eliminate the accumulated pus.

Tonsillitis - bite conflict (left - I don't like the bite I received - can be real or fictitious; right - I don't get the bite I want)

Headache - I feel attacked, from the front, back, etc., depending on the location of the pain

I recommend you watch the documentaries on the right side of the page - the 4-hour one and the one by Crina Veres. To discuss your own conflicts and for additional materials, you can access the Facebook group, also mentioned on the right. You also have a book in pdf format that is addressed to those who have especially on the right side. Why is it aimed at advanced students? because it includes a lot of anatomy. Anyway, wherever you start studying, I recommend you do it.

Have a nice evening everyone,

Geo