The sniffing conflict and why nasal sprays only work in the short term

 

Ca orice fiinta biologica si omul adulmeca. Da, chiar daca are ratiune si refuza sa accepte acest proces, el se intampla. In special la copiii mici. De fiecare data cand suntem intr-un mediu nou, intr-o situatie noua, intre oameni noi, adulmecam...sa vedem daca totul e in regula, daca ne paste vreun pericol. Aceasta este faza activa a conflictului. In aceasta faza mucoasa nazala se imbogateste cu noi celule pentru o analiza mai eficienta a stimulilor din aer.

In momentul in care ne lamurim ca totul este in regula, conflictul se incheie iar celulele aparute anterior sunt eliminate. Apar astfel mult-temutii MUCI :) . Multe mamici se tem de ei. Copiii sunt mai vulnerabili la acest conflict pentru ca pentru ei totul in jur este nou si trebuie analizat. Conflictele de adulmecare apar mai des si tin mai mult.

Acestea fiind zise, de ce spray-urile nazale functioneaza doar pe o durata scurta iar nasul se infunda din nou, iar si iar...pai simplu, pentru ca aceste substante declanseaza un nou conflict de adulmecare. Tocmai am incheiat un conflict de adumecare, sunt eliminati muci, nasul este infundat...si pulverizam spray inauntru...automat procesul de eliminare a celulelor suplimentare de care vorbeam este suspendat si se declanseaza un nou conflict de adulmecare. Nasul incearca sa identifice substanta si creierul sa inteleaga daca totul e in regula. Noi celule sunt iarasi create pentru o mai buna analiza a stimulilor. Cand se incheie si acest proces, vindecarea o ia de la capat, se elimina celulele, curg mucii, se infunda nasul...

Si iar dam cu spray, si iar se desfunda nasul, pana cand, la un moment dat acest lucru nu se mai intampla. Spray-ul, tragedie!, nu mai functioneaza. Alergam la farmacie sa luam altul.

Dar oare de ce nu mai functioneaza? Pentru ca organismul il cunoaste si considera ca acesta nu mai reprezinta un pericol, adica un nou motiv de adulmecare. Am putea da in nas cu orice substanta, nu neaparat cu un anumit medicament, si efectul ar fi acelasi - un proces nou de adulmecare si desfundarea nasului pana cand corpul se obisnuieste si cu aceasta noua substanta.

Concluzia - nu mai cumparati toate chimicalele si lasati organismul sa se repare.

Extra kilos, the refugee conflict

 

A friend of mine went to Germany last winter. Her husband found a job and they left with their whole family - a boy of about 6 years old and a girl of one year old who was born there. When they left, she weighed about 60kg and was 1.70cm tall. Here they had a house in the country and a garden, he was paid quite well, they lived peacefully.

There, only the husband works and they also have the child allowance, which in Germany is decent.

They spent the first year in her sister's house where they contributed to the rent and consumption. My friend gained about 10-15 kg.

A few months ago they moved into a new house on their own. They have more space for the children, but the rent is much higher, while their income remains the same. My friend gained another 10kg and is now about 85, maybe better. No, they don't live extraordinarily well as one might think, they are quite tight with money, but they stay there for children who have a different situation at school, study in a different environment, are offered other possibilities.

The explanation: the extra fat accumulated does not necessarily depend on how much you eat, on sweets, on lack of exercise as one might think. The refugee conflict = that situation in which the person is worried about tomorrow, what we will eat, what I will feed my family with, how we will manage with money, with debts. Because of this stress, the body accumulates reserves...you don't know what tomorrow will bring, so "let's just put something else in there". Only when the stress disappears, do the kilos disappear.

Right ear pain, right tonsil pain, right side scalp itching

 

Yesterday morning a friend wrote to me asking for some advice. Her scalp was so itchy she could barely touch it, her right tonsil was sore and she had a pretty unpleasant pain in her right ear. What could it be?

I took them one by one:

Right ear pain = you want to hear something, receive news and it hasn't come yet, a desired and unreceived auditory bite; if it was the left ear = a received bite that bothered us, that we didn't want, loud noises, unwanted news, unpleasant sounds, arguments, criticism, etc.

Right tonsil pain = you want to receive a real or imaginary bite and it hasn't come yet; if it was the left ear = an unwanted, unpleasant bite.

With these two, it was easy, we figured them out right away. Our friends have been looking to buy their house for 8 months. They searched desperately for a while and found nothing, and now they have found and have been waiting for about 2-3 weeks for an answer from the bank about the loan. Here is the long-awaited news and the bite.

I explained to her that both are in the active conflict phase, cellular growth is taking place and when she gets what she wants, cellular growth will stop and tissue breakdown will follow with the possibility of pus appearing in both the throat and the ear if the conflict lasts too long. I advised her to resolve it as soon as possible.

Scalp itching = I admit that I didn't know this and I started looking. My friend had told me that initially it itched her face and head, then it was limited to her head. But it's so bad that she can hardly touch her skin.

Researching through NMG materials, I found that this symptom is the result of resolving an attack conflict. Okay, conflict completed, healing phase. Clearly different from the conflict with the bank.

I ask her if she is right-handed or left-handed, she says she is right-handed, I explain that the right is the partner's side and the left is the mother-child and I ask her who attacked her. Her husband? A colleague at work?

And she tells me YES, at work! A few days ago she had an incident with a colleague who accused her of something related to salaries and she felt the accusation like a slap on the face and head. Bang, bang! Stinging in the face and head. Isn't that how we feel when we get slapped? :) Simple as that! I told her to stay calm with this one that it will pass in a few days, but to try to resolve the other one as soon as possible.

This morning I talk to her and she tells me that absolutely all her symptoms have gone away. All of them! Awareness of conflicts, if they are not very old and serious, can lead to their immediate resolution.

Good health to everyone!

Diarrhea - another toxic bite eliminated

 

From February 2018:

A banal diarrhea, but I'm writing about it so you can see how precisely biological laws work: last night our child, jerky, rushed and in a hurry as he always is, suddenly bent over to take his shoes to run after his father outside to play in the snow. He got up scared and told me that he was stung in the chest.

I took him to task: where it stings you, bend over again, sit on the bed, lie on your side, it stings you inside or on the skin, etc. etc. The sting seemed to be somewhere on the left side of the stomach, near the ribs, it stung him a few times when he made sudden movements.

I left him with his father and ran outside because I couldn't hold myself back anymore - instant DIARRHEA (toxic food received at the same time as the child was sick). I came back from outside, made him sit quietly for a bit, gave him a massage, he had a couple of contractions and was good as new :) ...conclusion - when he suddenly bent over he probably trapped gas in his intestines and stung him. But I reacted immediately by running outside :)

How do you recognize an active conflict?

 

Here's how you recognize an active "ongoing" conflict. You don't have to have all the symptoms...

From my experience: the other day I had to drive a stretch of road. I drive well, I used to like it, but I haven't driven for a few years and the current traffic is killing me mentally. I knew the night before that I would be the one "on the phone" the next day.

I slept badly. The first symptom. I woke up about 2 times and had a hard time falling asleep again.

In the morning: very cold hands. The second symptom.

Then I had a stomach ache, a bout of diarrhea right after waking up, then nausea. Symptoms three and four.

Then, lack of appetite even though I usually eat well in the morning. Symptom 5.

General bad mood, a kind of general weakness. Symptom 6.

It kept me up until I got behind the wheel. Then I started walking, focused on walking and along the way they passed. I completely recovered when I got off and calmly climbed back in :)

Skin irritation

 

A friend of mine told me today that she had a rash on her skin. She went to the doctor and the doctor diagnosed her with scarlet fever at first glance! She was a bit worried, but she asked me for an opinion. I asked her WHERE the blisters appeared. On her face, neck and abdomen. When: at the end of last week but on Saturday they had faded. The doctor still told her to come for tests tomorrow. AFTER he gave her the diagnosis and panicked her.

Explanation - on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday last week she was away in another city for a work event. Her husband stayed home. Young people, they care a lot about each other.

I told her not to worry and not to go for any tests because it would make things worse. And especially not to use any cream full of chemicals.

What happened to her - the area where the blisters appeared is the hug area. The area where a separation conflict manifests itself when you DO NOT want to separate from something/someone. That someone was the husband she longed for during the trip. I explained the exact same thing to her. I told her to stay home, rest and in 2-3 days she will be like new. The rash is already in the healing phase.

After about 3 days it was completely gone.

Excessive urination

 

For 3 weeks we lived in construction site conditions on a large, unfenced plot of land where we were building our house. We stayed there out of necessity, because we already had things and materials there that needed to be guarded. Our team of workers had gone home while the floor dried.

Before going there, the child had no problems with urination. At almost 5 years old, he was holding it all night, he was doing well in the morning, all good and beautiful. I had taken care to wake him up at night to put him to the potty. He was already about 2-3 weeks old when I got rid of his care.

A few days after we moved to the new location, not immediately, a few days later and I'll tell you why, he started to pee in bed at night. So much that he made a puddle on the mattress. Even if I woke up, put him to the potty, he still did it in bed. Almost every night. I was in despair. I was tired of airing the beds and drying the pants. I sent his dad home to get a change of clothes because I ran out. I didn't have a washing machine, I was tired of rinsing by hand.

We've been home for a few days now, the problem stopped as soon as we got there. I sat and thought and turned the situation around and here are the conclusions.

Excessive urination = territorial marking conflict.

Possible causes:

1. Being a new place, he felt the need to mark it. New house, new bed. I don't think that was it though because it's not the first time we've slept there and secondly the problem didn't appear from the first night but about 3 nights after.

2. The most plausible explanation - territorial marking conflict taken over from me. He is very close to me as a mother and I think my conflict was his too. What exactly happened? We moved on Friday morning. On Sunday night between 1:30 and 2 am, our well pump was stolen by unknown perpetrators who entered our land and had the courage to come 50m from the house where the well is located. We were woken up by the dogs, but not having strong flashlights and not knowing what was happening, we left the house, but we did not go up the hill to see why the dogs were moving in that direction. We thought they must be animals/other dogs, etc.

After this situation, I started to sleep very badly, not feeling safe, starting at every barking of the dogs. The child from about the next night started to wet the bed at night. So, my desire to mark my territory was transmitted to him as well. At one point I was talking to my husband - it was 1:30 in the morning and, to top it off, a few minutes after that time I noticed that the bed was wet again!!! Why exactly 1:30? My territory invaded by thieves :)

Now we are OK. Everything returned to normal as soon as we returned home. In about 2 weeks we have to go there again... and the fence is still not ready. I need to calm down, not feel threatened and invaded anymore because I will have to wash the beds again ...