How do you recognize an active conflict?

 

Here's how you recognize an active "ongoing" conflict. You don't have to have all the symptoms...

From my experience: the other day I had to drive a stretch of road. I drive well, I used to like it, but I haven't driven for a few years and the current traffic is killing me mentally. I knew the night before that I would be the one "on the phone" the next day.

I slept badly. The first symptom. I woke up about 2 times and had a hard time falling asleep again.

In the morning: very cold hands. The second symptom.

Then I had a stomach ache, a bout of diarrhea right after waking up, then nausea. Symptoms three and four.

Then, lack of appetite even though I usually eat well in the morning. Symptom 5.

General bad mood, a kind of general weakness. Symptom 6.

It kept me up until I got behind the wheel. Then I started walking, focused on walking and along the way they passed. I completely recovered when I got off and calmly climbed back in :)

Skin irritation

 

A friend of mine told me today that she had a rash on her skin. She went to the doctor and the doctor diagnosed her with scarlet fever at first glance! She was a bit worried, but she asked me for an opinion. I asked her WHERE the blisters appeared. On her face, neck and abdomen. When: at the end of last week but on Saturday they had faded. The doctor still told her to come for tests tomorrow. AFTER he gave her the diagnosis and panicked her.

Explanation - on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday last week she was away in another city for a work event. Her husband stayed home. Young people, they care a lot about each other.

I told her not to worry and not to go for any tests because it would make things worse. And especially not to use any cream full of chemicals.

What happened to her - the area where the blisters appeared is the hug area. The area where a separation conflict manifests itself when you DO NOT want to separate from something/someone. That someone was the husband she longed for during the trip. I explained the exact same thing to her. I told her to stay home, rest and in 2-3 days she will be like new. The rash is already in the healing phase.

After about 3 days it was completely gone.

Excessive urination

 

For 3 weeks we lived in construction site conditions on a large, unfenced plot of land where we were building our house. We stayed there out of necessity, because we already had things and materials there that needed to be guarded. Our team of workers had gone home while the floor dried.

Before going there, the child had no problems with urination. At almost 5 years old, he was holding it all night, he was doing well in the morning, all good and beautiful. I had taken care to wake him up at night to put him to the potty. He was already about 2-3 weeks old when I got rid of his care.

A few days after we moved to the new location, not immediately, a few days later and I'll tell you why, he started to pee in bed at night. So much that he made a puddle on the mattress. Even if I woke up, put him to the potty, he still did it in bed. Almost every night. I was in despair. I was tired of airing the beds and drying the pants. I sent his dad home to get a change of clothes because I ran out. I didn't have a washing machine, I was tired of rinsing by hand.

We've been home for a few days now, the problem stopped as soon as we got there. I sat and thought and turned the situation around and here are the conclusions.

Excessive urination = territorial marking conflict.

Possible causes:

1. Being a new place, he felt the need to mark it. New house, new bed. I don't think that was it though because it's not the first time we've slept there and secondly the problem didn't appear from the first night but about 3 nights after.

2. The most plausible explanation - territorial marking conflict taken over from me. He is very close to me as a mother and I think my conflict was his too. What exactly happened? We moved on Friday morning. On Sunday night between 1:30 and 2 am, our well pump was stolen by unknown perpetrators who entered our land and had the courage to come 50m from the house where the well is located. We were woken up by the dogs, but not having strong flashlights and not knowing what was happening, we left the house, but we did not go up the hill to see why the dogs were moving in that direction. We thought they must be animals/other dogs, etc.

After this situation, I started to sleep very badly, not feeling safe, starting at every barking of the dogs. The child from about the next night started to wet the bed at night. So, my desire to mark my territory was transmitted to him as well. At one point I was talking to my husband - it was 1:30 in the morning and, to top it off, a few minutes after that time I noticed that the bed was wet again!!! Why exactly 1:30? My territory invaded by thieves :)

Now we are OK. Everything returned to normal as soon as we returned home. In about 2 weeks we have to go there again... and the fence is still not ready. I need to calm down, not feel threatened and invaded anymore because I will have to wash the beds again ...

Dry cough: two different cases among my acquaintances

 

Case 1: Last night a friend told me that she has had a dry cough for 3 days that is making her desperate and asked me to help her.

I explained to her that a dry cough has 3 possible causes:

1. a strong fright, in which case the larynx is affected;

2. a negative shock, "I was left speechless", in which case the larynx is also affected;

The cough in both cases 1 and 2 is felt in the throat and not in the chest; syrups and sweet candies help until the tissue is repaired and the cough goes away on its own when the laryngeal mucosa has completed the repair process.

3. fear of losing territory or something in the territory (e.g. fear of losing home, child, partner, parent, job), in which case the bronchial mucosa in the lungs is affected. The cough is felt in the chest.

She confirmed that it is 100% found in case 2 and that sweet candies help her. She wanted to know how long it would last and what she had to do. I asked her to tell me what happened so I could tell her how long it would last :)

Here's the story: she works at a multinational company, at a secondary headquarters in a smaller city. 10 days ago she was asked to help recruit a new member in the department where she works, but at the main headquarters in a larger city. The recruited person will have basically the same duties as her. When she found out what the salary that person would have at the main headquarters, she was shocked, she was literally speechless. It was a substantially higher amount than she earns.

I explained to her that she has been in the healing phase since the cough started, that the tissue is recovering. If she has already had it for 3 days and the conflict lasted a week, she has 4 more days and that's it. All she needs to do is eat a candy every now and then, take a teaspoon of honey, whatever helps her and that's it. Otherwise, the larynx can handle itself :)

Case 2 dry cough: Another friend has 2 children, a boy of almost 7 years and a girl of about 5 years. 2 years ago, her father went abroad for work and since then the boy has a dry cough that does not go away under any circumstances. Talking to her, I found out that the children's father calls her every day and since the guy did not come to the children's party at Christmas, the boy coughs much worse, including at night. He was very attached to his father.

I explained to her that hers is case 3 - the child is afraid of losing his father. She gives him herbal and black radish syrups and does not help him at all. I told her that there is nothing she can do. The cough is not in her throat. She cannot help him and the fact that the guy calls every day or almost every day only makes the conflict recur because the boy remembers him and remembers that he is gone.

I advised her to talk to him openly or in her sleep. Until the guy comes home or until the child gets over the shock of him leaving home, the cough will persist, especially since it recurs every time she hears him on the phone.

Uterine Prolapse

 A 39-year-old friend recently received the news from her doctor that she is in menopause. She has an 8-year-old child and 6-year-old twins. After receiving this news, she began to suffer from what doctors call uterine "prolapse" and bladder prolapse, meaning that the vagina can no longer hold the uterus, which is starting to come out - she feels as if she has an egg in her vagina.

The allopathic explanation - during childbirth she probably suffered a muscle tear, being a natural birth. The solution that "awaits" her is the surgical installation of a mesh to support the internal organs, a solution full of risks and possible side effects. It is absurd considering that the birth was 6 years ago and the problems appeared recently, after receiving the news.

How I explain:

- the muscles are involved in devaluation conflicts, meaning "I am not able to physically perform this activity, the task, etc."

- since she has no pain, it means that it is the active conflict phase - the pain appears in the phase in which the muscles have recovered and the body checks whether the nerve endings are functional;

- since the problem appeared after the news of "menopause", her body reacts to the idea that "I am no longer able to support another pregnancy";

- what is happening now specifically? the muscles are weakened and soft because the body is now eliminating all the weak cells with the idea of ​​replacing them soon with stronger ones that will be able to support another pregnancy. After the process is completed, the pain will also appear (the body tests the nerve endings) and the muscles will be stronger.

Wasp sting and remedies

 

Country life - joy, fresh air but also conflicts sometimes, 2 simultaneously. A few days ago our child was stung on the sole by something, a bee or a wasp I guess, after the pain a wasp is more likely. He was with me in the garden, walking through the grass in his slippers and suddenly he screamed and complained that he was being stung.

At first I didn't really pay attention to him, but seeing that he insisted on screaming I put him in the wheelbarrow I was with and took him down the hill. There was only a small red dot on his skin. He whined for a while and then forgot. Overnight, however, his foot swelled up, about half as big as the other, he complained that it hurt, he was itching and it was also red and a little hot - the foot, not the whole child. This was in the morning because he slept well at night. No fever or other symptoms.

I gave him Apis mellifica CH7 made with pen and paper. CH12 was better, but I had already started taking it when I found out. I gave him about 6-7 doses every 15 minutes. After the second and third, he complained that it hurt more, so I deduced that it was working.

After the 4th/5th, he told me that he just ate it and it didn't hurt at all. But his leg was still very swollen. Just the paw, not the whole leg. The shoe was stuck in place and it embarrassed him a little.

I let him see how it evolved until the next day and in the morning it was just as swollen. No pain, with some itching and swelling. I thought then that it must be another conflict. The sting had passed, but the swelling remained.

I started researching and found out that the swelling came from a devaluation conflict. "I wanted to run away from the situation I was in and I couldn't". It also suited us. I gave a dose of Rescue Remedy a little late. Nothing happened until the next day. The leg was swollen until the afternoon and it went away on its own.

There's no point in panicking when you know about NMG. As a mother, you have to be strong...

Ah...and I got diarrhea again when I saw the swollen leg. This is what happens every time the child has something. I get diarrhea instantly, one round, on the toilet I think about what I have to do and that's it.

Good health to everyone!

Severe diarrhea and aloe poisoning

 

How I solved a complex problem for myself by combining my knowledge of NMG with that of homeopathy. Specifically - last night at around 10 pm I started to experience severe, explosive diarrhea, and some mucus. Until the morning and throughout the night I had about 6-7 very unpleasant episodes - I was in the bathroom for 15 minutes at a time, I didn't sleep much, I eliminated absolutely everything from my intestines, everything came out undigested, I think directly from the stomach because the acidity at the "exit" gave me some nasty stinging sensations. As bad as I felt, I had suffered from something more serious... I didn't know what... I had diarrhea before, but in a few minutes it was resolved.

Diarrhea = active conflict of toxic ingestion, either real or imaginary. For me it was REAL + IMAGINARY as I finally identified in the morning.

Since yesterday morning I have been staying with my parents in another city. I usually leave here with a cartload of conflicts and my first thought was to go over all the discussions from yesterday to see who and how upset me, what was toxic. NOTHING. We discussed a lot, absolutely civilly, so I couldn't identify anything no matter how much I racked my brains. In the meantime, the diarrhea was getting worse. During the night, my mother insisted on boiling some rice for me. I accepted for her sake, although I was convinced that it wouldn't help me. Anyway, by morning I had eliminated rice and everything. As for food, I hadn't eaten anything toxic, spoiled or at least I didn't remember anything that seemed suspicious to me.

At 6 o'clock I couldn't resist sitting in bed to think any longer and started searching through the homeopathy courses I had taken (http://cursuri.nextbyte.ro/course/index.php). It was strange that I couldn't find any toxic food and I didn't understand what was wrong with me, with such a seemingly simple problem.

I started reading with my constitutional remedy but it had nothing to do with my digestive problems. I then took all the remedies in order, alphabetically until I stopped at ALOE SOCOTRINA and here everything became clear and I knew in a second what I had suffered and what I had to do.

For those who don't know homeopathy, it works like this: homeopathic remedies are made, many of them, from poisonous plants. The ill states that the plant would give in material form are combated by the plant in its etheric state (i.e. by the homeopathic remedy). And I was intoxicated with ALOE SOCOTRINA in material form.

The night before, around 10 p.m., my father, insistent as he is about bragging about the natural remedies he uses, insisted that I taste a bottle of concentrated aloe with honey and red wine, made by him at home from potted aloe leaves. I tasted it out of politeness. The substance seemed horrible to me, my stomach turned inside out from it. He praised it, saying that it was wonderful for digestive problems. From there everything started...5-10 minutes later I was the first to go to the bathroom. But I had to think all night and read the homeopathy course to catch myself. It was an action of a few seconds.

What happened specifically - aloe for digestive problems is good - but I was a healthy person and the substance only caused me diarrhea = the real bite because I didn't need it, the body considered it toxic or unnecessary, I think it was more toxic considering the explosive effects. In addition, the nausea it caused me and my father's insistence constituted the imaginary bite.

What did I do specifically? I programmed with pen and paper a homeopathic remedy Aloe socotrina CH12 of which I took a dose every 10 minutes. The idea was that the homeopathic remedy would annihilate the real substance ingested that had harmed me. After about 3 doses the situation was improved quite well, after an hour I had almost no gas. I ate calmly and 6 hours have already passed and I have NOTHING left. Before that I would have already been to the bathroom at least 3 times.

Update (2 days later) - I had nothing else during the day or after that. The effect was the desired one, so the remedy was chosen correctly.

Good health to all!