Cystitis / Urinary Tract Infection - Territorial Marking Conflict

 

Symptoms - burning and pain when urinating - I know them all too well from my college days when I suffered from urinary tract infections every month for 2 years because of my friends who had some problems with my decisions and were always on my "territory" :)

Conflict - territorial violation, I'll give you the two possible explanations at the end.

Story - yesterday, on a beautiful day, we decided to go for a walk. The child dressed like a teddy bear with socks, 2 pants, one of which was a frock with suspenders, with a thick jacket, all the cutlery. 50 meters from the house he announces that he has to pee. Nothing abnormal for a 3-year-old child. Dad, ultra nervous and panicked, tries to undress him so that he doesn't do it on him.

After 5 seconds, he rips his jacket off him and breaks the zipper, scolding the child for not saying anything sooner. I try to calm him down and he starts to pick on me too. I try to calm him down once more and he nervously makes me undress the child to pee. Everything goes on normally and calmly, the child peees, dad still nervous.

I ask him to put him back on because my hand hurts (I was in the healing phase from the conflict with the hand in the previous article). Dad still nervous, he blames the child for not saying anything at home and me, should I put him on, I calmly explain to him that it is normal for a 3-year-old child not to think of saying anything. We should have asked him. He beats me up again, the child starts screaming in anger that he ruined his jacket and can no longer throw himself in the snow. We start "singing" towards the house to change his jacket :).

We change the jacket with a song, I scold dad again for the completely absurd exit (which is not really characteristic of him), we start back with a song. Finally the child calms down and everything ends with a wonderful walk in the snow.

An hour later we came back, oops, burning sensation when urinating. My first thought - who violated my territory? The answer - dad :) The burning sensation passes immediately.

Which was my territory in fact:

1. either my opinions with which he did not agree, i.e. the fictitious territory

2. either the child and the jacket which are the mother's "territory", violated

This is how it works. 10 years ago the next steps were: laboratory appointment, urine culture, antibiogram, minimum 5 days of antibiotics. The symptoms returned after a month of regularity, repeated the steps above...

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Thank you, Dr. Hamer :)