Yes, it's up to me to do something if you didn't know and it's not hard, but I kept postponing, I kept ignoring...
How did the story start specifically? And then I'll explain the conflict...
About 20 years ago I moved away from home and started college. At that time, I had long, thick, heavy, silky and obviously very beautiful hair. I wore a winter coat with a fur collar and I was proud of the way my hair fell heavily over that collar. I did NOT consider myself beautiful, torn from the sun, but I knew that my hair was beautiful. It was one of the few times in my life when I let myself be influenced by my surroundings and decided to dye my hair like girls my age. Even though I left home, I'm still a student, to do something important if until I was 19 I only knew how to study. To be among the world...
I dyed my hair for about 3 years until I decided that it was a waste of time and money. At the time I decided to quit, I had just started my first serious job, being a 4th year student. I was the youngest in the department, the mascot of my colleagues who were, the youngest, 20 years older than me. My boss was over 60 years old, a serious man, very kind-hearted, a wonderful man who patiently and benevolently taught me the job of a human resources person, this after he had hired me with no experience and no idea what I was going to do.
However, he also caused me the great conflict that for 20 years considerably thinned my hair. How? I had just given up dyeing for a few months. I usually wore my hair tied up at the office, but that day I had left it behind. My hair - half orange (from the middle to the ends) and half brown (from the roots to the middle), after repeated dye and bleaching sessions, caught the attention of my boss who laughed at me without any harm. I was so shocked by his innocent joke that from that moment on my hair started to fall out slowly but surely.
After about 2-3 years I had nothing to do and went to the hairdresser. My hair already looked quite sad and was falling out continuously. The hairdresser couldn't help but say one more thing: "Oh my, what thin hair you have!". Another shock for me and more tufts of hair fell out one after another.
Now after 20 years my hair has thinned to about a quarter of what it was before I dyed it. Normal, some would say, but it's just age. Definitely NOT! I say. Age has nothing to do with it. Everything starts from the central processing unit, that is, my brain shocked by the first conflict, a conflict still active 20 years later.
For a while I was content to look mournfully in the mirror, then I didn't look at it at all, for a while I avoided combing it daily so as not to get angry. In addition to the fact that it was thinning every day, it was also terribly damaged that a combing session was an ordeal. I would kick my feet with nerves while I struggled with the brush or comb. I would ignore it and that's it because femininity, beauty and personal care seemed boring subjects to me.
And then I decided to do something after working on myself with theta healing and the code of emotions for the whole year of 2023. I changed hundreds of limiting programs and thousands of negative emotions. No exaggeration. I simply changed my mindset and decided to take better care of myself (the Dubai Bling series also helped me - some of those women are a model of femininity and beauty for me). I worked on money, relationships, but it also worked on me as a woman. Surprisingly, I now have nail polish, creams, eyeshadow, a super hair care range, lip gloss, hair curlers and other little things that make me feel more well-groomed and beautiful and that I didn't give a damn about before.
And the conflict? Tell us the conflict, stop talking to us :)
Let me tell you...
Hair falls out for two reasons. Two, big and broad.
The first is a conflict of separation from someone dear to us who used to stroke our heads. For example. if we lost a grandmother and she often stroked our heads, the loss can lead, depending on how each person perceives the situation, of course, to hair loss.
The second...and my case in particular...is a devaluation conflict related to hair. That is, in Romanian, I don't like my hair, I hate it, I detest it, I consider it horrible and my body throws it away to make room for another, better and more beautiful one to grow. The problem is that many times when we see the state in which our hair ornament has reached, that is, thin and sparse, the conflict is reactivated and we end up losing it for years in a row because we are constantly dissatisfied with how it looks.
Sometimes hair falls out a lot in women who have just given birth. It is about the conflict of separation from the child. The mother was not ready for life separated from the babies in her belly, she was not ready to give birth to them and sometimes she loses her hair. There are chances that it can be resolved through awareness of the situation or homeopathic remedies. I won't go into details because my story is different. Pregnancy didn't affect my hair. It was affected.
already and I haven't noticed any changes during this period.
Okay, okay, I've told a lot and...returning to the title, what do I do if I've decided that I don't want my hair to fall out anymore. Well, the solution is to start liking it so that my body doesn't reject it anymore. And how do I do that? By taking care of it with the utmost care and choosing a range of hair products that I believe can help me. It doesn't matter which ones, don't ask me because others will work for you. The important thing is that YOU WILL BE 100% CONVINCED THAT THESE PRODUCTS WILL HELP YOU. Choose expensive, cheap, natural, branded products, with phyto-ingredients, with colorful or pearlescent packaging...absolutely anything will help you provided you believe and are convinced that it will help you.
I chose a foreign range, moderate in price (30-40 RON a shampoo doesn't bankrupt me) but with two ingredients that I can't resist - gold and roses. My range contains colloidal gold and French rose extract Rosa gallica. I'm so convinced that it helps me that after just one use of the shampoo, hair mask and oil, my hair no longer falls out, it's very silky and seems even heavier. Until now it was thin and ugly, soft and frizzy. Not to mention that it smells divine. It makes me feel beautiful, elegant and cared for.
The secret is not the range of products themselves but the fact that they cancel the conflict of devaluation and the bad opinion we have about our hair. This way, it slowly starts to regenerate.
Okay, I think it's clear now.
Kisses and good health to all of you,
Geo
Update February 7th, that is, a week later: my hair is almost completely out of the way, only a few strands a day, and something else very interesting - it has changed its structure. If before I could easily knot my hair and the knot would stay there, now the hair slides and the knot comes undone by itself. So the hair is shinier. It also feels shinier when combed. It only takes me 1-2 minutes to comb it. Before, I struggled for 10-15 minutes and felt like throwing the comb away because I was pulling my hair terribly. I couldn't stand having anyone around when I was combing it because I was so nervous...so far so good, let's move on. Let's see how long it takes for it to thicken. Now the tail is very thin, about the size of a finger on my hand. I'll be back... :)
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