Severe Pain in the Right Biceps - Devaluation Conflict

 written in February 2017:

Symptoms - quite unpleasant pain in the right hand, up in the biceps muscle area - only in certain positions. Duration - about 3 days.

Conflict - devaluation conflict related to the mobility of the striated muscle in the healing phase. The muscle is recovering and the pain appears from the nerve impulses through which the body tests that the area is functional. Devaluation conflict = I don't think I can perform a certain physical task with that part of the body. If you succeed, pain (muscle fever) appears because the body replaces certain cells in the area with stronger ones and restores the nerve endings so that next time you can without a doubt.

Explanations in my case - two possible:

1. The night before yesterday it snowed about 30cm and yesterday I shoveled snow for about half a day, my husband being away from home for 4 days; I had to take care of it because the -20 degrees frost was coming, the snow was getting harder and it was harder to move after that; plus my husband was coming home in the dark from afar and needed a place to park the car; it seemed to me that I couldn't finish it, that I was tired and that the task was beyond my strength; I finished, everything was ok;

2. the most plausible for me - my husband was away from home for 4 days; me with the whole household on my head, plus the worry of making a fire 2-3 times a night, carrying wood, I had the impression that I was being overwhelmed by worries and that I couldn't cope with everything both physically and mentally. Why do I say it's the most plausible? Because the pains appeared about an hour after he returned home.

Another useful detail - when such pain occurs, we may experience an additional conflict of devaluation in the same area, because it bothers us and we are dissatisfied that it does not help us and we cannot use it, so we have a bad opinion of our abilities in that area. These additional conflicts can prolong the pain.

Health!

Clogged Tear Duct, Yellow Eye Secretions in a Young Child

 Clogged tear duct, yellow eye secretions in a young child - Conflict I don't want to be seen in this situation

November 2016

Another concrete case from our family clarified: yesterday while the child was sleeping, because the internet was down due to bad weather, I started browsing through NMG documents on my tablet, just by chance. My eyes fell on the section with lacrimal gland and lacrimal duct diseases. Bingo! Another case explained...

The little one, about a month after birth, suffered from a blocked tear duct in his left eye - specifically: every morning he woke up with his eye glued shut, with dry and sticky pus all over his eye, coming from the area of ​​the lacrimal duct, that is, from the base of the nose. The doctor advised us to wipe it well with saline and wait for it to pass. It passed in a few days. At that time, we, not knowing anything about NMG, blamed it all on a walk in the wind outside. We thought, because that's all we knew and our heads were spinning, that the current must have pulled the poor child's eye :)

Explanation: Conflict involved in the blockage of the tear duct: I don't want to be seen in this situation. I sat and thought, puzzled, in what situation the poor one-month-old child wouldn't want to be seen. And then the explanation "hit" me - it was conflict taken over from me! Small children often take over the conflicts of their mother or relatives they feel very close to. In the last month of pregnancy and during the birth, I didn't want to be seen. Not at all! Leave me alone.

I didn't accept any visits from anyone at the maternity ward, no matter how close they were. Only my husband was the only one I wanted by my side. The rest, only 2-3 very, very close people came home about 2 weeks when I wanted to see someone. Until then, I wanted absolutely everyone to leave me alone.

The result: blocked tear duct in the child, one month after birth, at the moment when I got over the conflict.

Thank you, Dr. Hamer,

Fever, Frontal Headache in a Young Child

 Fever, Frontal Headache in a Young Child - Conflict situation that I don't know how to get out of + Conflict attack from the front

August 2016:

Proof of how much harm an adult can do to a child, out of too much affection and kindness, but lack of attention to what he wants to say...here it is: today at lunch I was coming with the little one from the kindergarten together with his grandmother.

The little one was fussy because he was sleepy, he was making noises that he wanted to be in my arms, he was crying incessantly.

I knew he was sleepy. I left him alone to walk next to us, so with a song because my back was not holding me back to carry him in my arms. I explained to him that my back hurts, that I can't carry him in my arms up the hill 100 meters to the house and I continued walking next to him knowing that I was putting him home to sleep and he calmed down because that's all he really wanted.

His grandmother wouldn't let him take him in her arms. She insisted even though the child didn't want to be in her arms. At one point she picked him up even though the child was screaming loudly "No! No! No!" and struggling to get to her in her arms. She carried him about 50 meters in her arms, then I picked him up.

We got home, I put him to sleep and about an hour and a half later he woke up nervous, crying, with a moderate fever and a little tired. In addition, he was complaining that his head hurt in the forehead area. Knowing that a fever means "I want to get out of this situation where I don't feel safe" I thought that only his grandmother was upset when she took him by force in her arms even though he was screaming No and struggling.

I explained to him nicely that she wouldn't take him anymore, I held him in my arms until we left because we were getting ready to go home anyway. I gave him a Bach Rescue Remedy which he refused and I didn't insist. Generally children feel when they does he need something or not?

On the way, his fever went away about 30 minutes after leaving and he fell asleep in the car for about an hour. When he woke up, he was hungry and I wanted to give him a bag of cookies from his grandmother. His head had gone too. He asked me where I got them and when I told him they were from her he started screaming and gave them back to me. Proof that my intuition about the fever had been correct. His father bought him some more cookies from a gas station which he devoured immediately. He didn't want to touch the ones from his grandmother.

When I got home, I explained to his grandmother what had happened and I wanted to give him a call to make peace with her. She didn't even want to hear it.

You can find the explanation for the fever above, the one for frontal headache = frontal attack, the child he felt attacked from the front.

So, mothers, pay attention to what your child wants to tell you, listen to your instincts and don't immediately run to the medicine. The fever lasted a maximum of an hour and passed quite quickly after I talked to the child and explained to him that his grandmother would not force him into her arms anymore. No paracetamol or other chemicals.

Thank you, Dr. Hamer!

Excessive Urination - Conflict: Marking New Territory

 August 2016

Let me tell you the latest NMG-interpreted rant by none other than my husband - the one who until a few months ago considered me a bit airy when I told him about my new discovery, NMG that is.

On Friday I drove about 200km. I, who generally have no problems with going to the toilet, can last for hours, now during approx. 4 hours I needed it 5 times! Once I even stormed into a gas station because I couldn't hold back any longer. Once upon departure, once upon arrival at the first destination, then upon departure from the first destination, then in a big rush to the gas station, then in a big rush again to the final destination. What was going to happen to me, I wondered.

Especially since I was in a hurry to leave and hadn't drunk anything since the previous evening. So...And then my husband says to me "Well, I think you want to mark your territory!" And the light bulb went on :) Thursday night we got our new car and on Friday we set off on our journey. New car, new seat, new territory...a lot of things to mark, right? :)

And the sensation of urinating wasn't accompanied by a stinging sensation, that's because it wasn't a negative conflict, I didn't feel my territory threatened, it was just new and needed to be marked :)

Breast Lump / Breast Cancer - Child Care Conflict

 Because I'm tired of constantly bumping into the issue of breast cancer, the statistics on the mortality rate, how odious this cancer is, the "worst" of all types of cancer, crazy women who cut off their breasts preventively and other blah blah, I decided to tell you my story.

I had a lump in my left breast. I discovered it in 2007 by chance while I was taking a shower. I got a cold shiver. It was the size of a pea. Every time I took a shower, I checked it a little more, I got a little more stressed. I was 26 years old. That's it. I didn't know there were any cases of breast cancer in my family. I kept checking it for a while, for a while I got caught up in work and the hustle and bustle of multinationals, I forgot about it, going to the doctor scared me worse than the lump itself... and then suddenly I discovered, he kept telling me that my left breast was a little saggy and I couldn't feel the lump anywhere. I checked it and rechecked it and it was gone.

I forgot about it until I discovered NMG and explained my situation. And since I've explained it, let me tell you something that might help someone: in 2006, exactly 2 weeks after our wedding, my mother-in-law died. My husband called me to say that she had died standing up, in a pharmacy while she was standing in line to get some pills. She was 52 years old and suffered from a heart condition. The husband also had a grandmother who also died of a heart attack and about 2 other relatives, who also died of heart attacks. We also went to get tested and my husband, young as me, after 2 weeks of not knowing what was wrong with him, of carrying him by the hand on the street like a child after his mother's death, came out with heart problems.

Wow. Crazy EKG, very high cholesterol, I don't know what palpitations and other crazy things that I didn't even understand. Clearly GENETICAL! I told myself at the time. If the poor guy has heart problems at this age, it's clearly from his mother, grandmother and the rest of his relatives. We need to get tested often, to keep everything short! I was extremely worried about him.

For a while his tests kept coming back negative, then we got busy with work and kept postponing. Now he's getting an EKG for occupational medicine and it's coming out fine. The conclusion - the nodule was because I was very worried about his health for a while. Then it was dissolved and the breast was left a little loose because, I think, there is a small piece of tissue missing there.

Why left, even though I am right-handed? Because at that time I looked at it like my child (I didn't openly admit it, but subconsciously I think I saw it as a child). Conclusion 2 - I'm not necessarily saying to do like me, to ignore the possible knot, but be very careful which "doctors" you go to. You might also end up with lung problems from the fear of death, not just mutilated breasts. I wrote an article on this topic some time ago when my friends were attacking me and making me desperate with the Avon pink march. Maybe this will help someone too. Good health and don't forget, get rid of fear!

Irritation/Red Bumps on Child's Feet - Separation Conflict

 July 2016: For about 3 days, the child has had a few reddish blisters on the inside of his legs, from the knee up, on a portion about the size of a palm, on the left more, but also on the right, which are felt in relief when touched. Most of them are above the knee. He doesn't eat it, they are just a little unsightly.

The classic explanation of allopathic medicine: poisoning. Where does poisoning come from if it is only on his legs, only in those places and the child eats food either produced by us or bought from local producers that we know. Nothing from the supermarket seems edible to us anymore :)).

My explanation: the picture of the car is more than relevant. A few days ago, a little boy came to visit us with whom ours still plays - each of them very possessive of their own toys by the way. Ours loves this car enormously and it is hard to give it up. It's a car that pushes with the feet, as you can see in the picture the area where the knee is more prominent, so better foot-car contact.

So... the explanation: the bumps - separation conflict. The inside of the legs: separation from something you did NOT want to separate from (if it was on the outside it would have been separation from something you want to get rid of). The conflict - our smell gave way to the other boy's car for a few minutes, although he didn't really want to, he suffered after it. The end! We're now waiting for it to pass.

Gastric Acidity - Anger Conflict

 July 2016: last night my husband comes home from a neighbor's to inform me that the 5 rows of corn that we had planted in his garden, with his approval along with other vegetables, were cut by the same neighbor along with climbing beans, pumpkins and whatever else was there in the corn.

The corn was planted later, but I kept it to boil and the stalks to dress the smaller trees in the winter (I hope I can pray to someone to keep giving me what I need). Good.

I find out with "joy" that the night before while my husband was digging potatoes, the same neighbor came, a little drunk, to ask if he could cut the corn because there was nothing being done there to feed it to the animals anyway. My husband jokingly replied that "we'll cut it tomorrow"...

"Tomorrow" everything was already cut, including the beans. I was boiling in my own juice all evening. I calmed down, but around 2 am I woke up and couldn't sleep for about 2 hours, also because of nerves. The stomach acidity/burning in the throat would appear as soon as I remembered and got angry, then they would disappear as soon as I realized them, absolutely immediately, and I would try to go to sleep. I would remember, get angry, the symptoms would come and go. I would calm down, done with them. So, stomach acidity = anger conflict in the active phase. It can be controlled by relaxation.

Case 2: August 2013 - I was 8 months pregnant. I slept with 4 pillows under my head and with slices of dry bread on the windowsill. Why? Night after night I had such high acidity that I would cough from the stinging all night and I couldn't get any sleep unless I ate dry bread. Why? I was angry at my situation, at the child for not "coming out" faster so I could rest, for kicking my lungs non-stop, for not letting me sit on my side, for only being able to sit on my back, for pressing on my bladder and pissing me off non-stop :). At that time I didn't know anything about NMG and thought it was normal to have heartburn.

Thank you, Dr. Hamer!